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Don't get caught up in the 'look' thing.

Sometimes, we as men and women,

The first thing that attracts us to someone is their physical appearance,

& that's not always a good thing

Because what's good on the outside

Is not always good on the inside.
- Keith Sweat

What are you doing to get a woman with the body of a goddess.

I've noticed a lot of talk about the physical appearance of women on social media, and my question to those women beating themselves up, what are those who critique you doing with themselves? Are those women who always have something to say about the way you look, doing the best that they can? Are they making the comments because they aren't happy with themselves or just trying to fit in with the rest of the crowd? The same goes to the guys making the comments as well. My motto has always been if I'm not happy with myself then I'm going to change the way I look by exercise and dieting, and understand my body and how it's built. Realizing that I won't be able to have certain things that other people can have.

That goes for the same with my partner, if I don't like something about them, I'll let it be known and I'll make sure that I have myself up to standards before I fix my mouth to say something about someone else. And that's how it's suppose to go, make sure you I's are dotted and your math adds up because if it doesn't, who are you to say something. Even then when you are good, what are you really complaining about? Just try not to be that person making douchey comments about the way people look if you aren't there yourself or not trying to help that person be better than what they are.

At the end of the day, physical looks only go so far, they do fade. But if you're lucky enough to remain in sound mind, then that is what lasts forever. But if changing something about yourself means being healthy and living a longer life, then by all means change it, but don't just change it because someone is complaining about the way you look, make the change for you and you alone. Because I guarantee you, there will always be someone out there that loves the way you look regardless of what's going on with you physically.

What do you think about when people have opinions on how other people look? What do you think about people going overboard to try and keep up with other people? Let me know in the comments below.

Until next time guys.